By this process we project the infection in our soul onto our partner. If we believe he or she is manipulating us, perhaps we need to face our own manipulation. Our partner may have defects, but to help our relationship grow, we first look to the only one we can change, and that is ourselves.
Think about your honesty with your partner. Can you improve your relationship by clearing up a misleading message you have given?
You are reading from the book:
The More We Find In Each Other by Merle Fossum and Mavis Fossum